Mandy's Musings...

Family Pictures

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Jennifer helped us take family pictures yesterday for Christmas gifts and such. Enjoy!

I'm going to have

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A nephew. His name is Samuel.

Please take the time to visit Megan's blog and remember our entire family in your prayers. \

http://pearlmusic.wordpress.com/2009/12/08/update/

Its the little things...

2009-12-01T09:14:00.004-06:00

Ever since I was little we had a tradition. Each year we get a new ornament for the tree. When I grew up and had my own tree I got all the ornaments that were mine from my childhood. Its a well loved tradition, and one we have continued with our own children.

Last year was our first holiday season living away from home. I was already mopey because my lovely Christmas tree had been left behind at our old house, never to be seen again. I decided to be thankful that I at least had my ornaments. As I half heartedly decorated a gimpy 5 foot tree, I reached into the box to find one of my childhood ornaments shattered. Not simply broken, but shattered. It was my Precious Moments cheerleader.

The tears formed automatically. I couldn't stop them as they overflowed my eyes and ran freely.

"She. Was. My. Favorite!" I sobbed. Honestly, I don't know if she was my favorite, or if it was simply the last straw to my emotional holiday. I never fully felt the "Christmas spirit" last year.

This year, our second away from home, we are going to be unable to travel back home for the holidays, and that has been hard on me. I have thrown myself into decorating our home.

I have a new tree, and while it still pales in comparison to my old one, its much nicer than the one we had last year. Christmas is sprinkled all over our home, yet there was still that nagging feeling that I was going to be unable to fully emotionally enjoy the holidays giving we won't be going home. I wanted to. I love Christmas. Its my favorite holiday. I'm one of the few people I know that wishes Christmas decor would be out all year. When Hobby Lobby puts their's out in July I love it, I don't groan.

A few days ago, Jennifer's mom called and told her she had some boxes of Christmas decor for us. Would we come get it? After our morning of shopping we ran by her moms, picked up three boxes and headed home. When we got home I proceeded to go through each of the boxes, deciding where I was going to put each item. I reached into the bottom of the last box and my heart stopped. Surely not! There was no way right? But it was, the ornament from my childhood. The Precious Moments Cheerleader, in its original box carefully wrapped in bubble wrap. What are the odds that an ornament from 1988, the exact ornament would end up back in my hands.

All I can say is...

Merry CHRISTmas. :)

Kids Speak

2009-11-11T12:30:00.002-06:00

Its been a while since I posted one of these, and I wanted to get them down before I forgot. I spent some time the past few days reading back over my blog and loved reading stories about the kids that I had totally forgotten about.

So without further ado, here are some of my favorite recent, what we refer to affectionatly as "Matthewisms"

Mom changing Matty's diaper "Pee-ew!"

Matthew: "Yeah, Pee Me"

Driving in the car:

Matthew: "There's something in my eye"

Jen: "Its the sun baby"

Matthew: "Will you turn the sun off please?"

He has also taken to coming up behind us, sticking out his little finger and poking our backs saying "boop"

I'm still alive...

2009-11-06T21:20:00.004-06:00

I've just been sucked into facebook land. I post most pictures and updates there, and have totally neglected my blog, the fact of which has been brought to my attention. So here is a rundown of our life as of late.

* We all recovered from swine flu/bronchitis and now we all have colds. Except for Aaron. He's superman. Except for the two days out of the year when he actually gets sick, then he's not superman. ;)

*I'm going back to school. I will be taking classes through Kaplan University and then once I have enough credits (24 to be exact) I will transfer to University of Texas at Arlington and enter their nursing program. My goal eventually is to become an L&D nurse. Then once my kids are much older, get my midwifery license.

*School is going ok for the kids. Not great, but not terrible right now. We have decided that we will be moving once our lease is up here in May.

*I had a parent teacher conference with Connor's teacher, and she flat out told me he is a genius. No laughing. He's testing the highest he can possibly test on all their tests, and has all the teachers astounded. He's in the 2nd grade and she said he could easily excel in 3d, 4th or 5th. Due to his other issues however, we're leaving him where he is.

*I'm going to be an aunt! Steven and Megan are expecting in late April. I'm SO excited!

*I got my haircut. Love it! It is taking some getting used to however, no more ponytails for me, I have to make an effort every day.

*Aaron just celebrated his 4 year anniversary for Blue Cross on Halloween. Still loves it, still going strong. They move to their new building in January.

*Matthew is 2. Ornery as ever, but hilarious. Not a day goes by where I'm not cracking up at him.

*Aaron and I will celebrate 10 years of marriage in 20 days. I can't believe its been a decade! Time flies by so fast! I still feel like a young girl in love most days.

I think that's about it. Most of you probably know everything, but I got fussed at by a couple of people for not blogging recently, so here ya go. A blog :) I'll do my best to keep it up, but not promising anything, especially since classes start on Wednesday. I'll be one busy bee! Facebook is easy for me to update because I can do it from my phone. So if you haven't already, look me up there.

Happy Birthday Honey!

2009-09-02T08:00:00.002-05:00

Happy birthday to my husband, my best friend, the father of my children, the love of my life.
You are everything I need and more.
Hope its a wonderful one for you!

First week of school wrap up

2009-08-31T12:59:00.003-05:00

The first week went very well. All the kids adjusted to the new school better than expected, and so far teachers seem awesome.
Connor made a new friend, which I'm very pleased with. Socializing is just not his thing.
It was a busy week, Tuesday we went to the Air Hog game as a back to school celebration.
Thursday we went out to eat to help celebrate our good friend Jennifer getting her promotion.
Saturday Sadie performed with her group again at the district health fair.

Now for Grace..... as you all know Grace has always been a stubborn little thing. She has a mind of her own thats for sure. I've never met a 2 year old who would stand in time out for 45 minutes, but she did. Because she refused to say she was sorry. She never asked to get out of time out, just stood there serious as could be.
So now we are in Kindergarten. Day 1- Grace informed her teacher "I'm not going to do that, its to hard."
Day 3- Grace tells her teacher "I don't feel like reading, I'm going to dance" and proceeds to dance.
Day 5- We're talking about the school day, and the kids are all telling me that their team won for the week. Their school is divided into two teams "Heroes" and the "Owls" they get points for good behavior, keeping their specified bathroom clean, as well as classrooms, and then finally on Fridays they have an academic bowl, and then announce the winners.
Well we are discussing their team's victory and Sadie tells me how she consoled a girl who got a question wrong, and everyone knows that specific girl is the meanest one in school. I applaud Sadie for her good sportsmanship and kind behavior and then Grace pipes up....
"You know what I'm going to do? I'm going to go to the Owls bathroom and throw trash all over the place so they will lose points"

I just don't know what I'm going to do with her. I redirect often (and I do mean often) but she's going to give me a run for my money, this much is sure!

First Day of School

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Meet The Teacher

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School Starts Monday!!!

Walgreens Trip!!!

2009-08-19T13:02:00.002-05:00

I'm floored! The savings just keep getting better and better! This is awesome!
Spent $2.64 Saved $10.70 Total savings of about 90%
I'm hooked on this coupon thing- I can't believe I just now started doing this!

This Mornings Kroger Deals

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Total Spent= $21.92
Total Saved= $29.35 (57%)

I ran into Walgreens to try and take advantage of a deal I found, but they were all out- my trip wasn't in vain though, I struck an awesome deal on body wash- marked down to 3.99 with $4 RR back, so ends up being "free" Will work out awesome for me if the other Walgreens I go to today has the wipes I'm looking for in stock. :)

My Kroger Shopping Trip

2009-08-18T16:29:00.002-05:00

I have taken up coupon shopping. Its fun to see how much I can save.
On my most recent Kroger shopping trip I saved the most I have ever saved so far- 20% which equaled about $64!!!

Here are some of my best deals:

Pillsbury Crescent Rolls-
.73 cents each. (I bought 4)

Kellogs Cereals
I got 6 boxes for .61 cents each!

There is much much more, but combined with the awesome sale Kroger has going on now, with e-coupons, and paper coupons here's how it broke down in savings:

Paper Manufacture Coupon Savings- $19.00
Kroger Plus Savings-$44.29

Total Savings- $63.29

I was very excited! Its never been so fun to cut coupons!

Tomorrow...

2009-07-29T22:42:00.003-05:00

Tomorrow I go and register the kids for the new school year. Sadie for 4th, Connor for 2nd, and Grace for Kinder. Its bittersweet. Time flies by so fast doesn't it?
Matthew is nearly 2 1/2 now, and before I know it we'll be buying our last pack of diapers.
No more babies for us, (barring a miracle) that chapter of parenting is now closed.
Its exciting and nerve wrecking all rolled into one. We're getting rid of diapers, and wipes, and baby talk, and entering the world of pimples, and late night talks about changes. Gone are the reminders to wash your hands, instead its replaced with, don't forget to wash your face, and when am I old enough to shave my legs?
No more barbies, instead we're being asked for MP3 players, and clothes(!)
The age gap between Sadie and Grace has never been so apparent until now, as Sadie enters a new stage of her life, becoming a young lady, as Grace is still a little girl. Why is it that girls seem to grow up faster than boys? I could write a whole post on that alone! Sadie and Connor aren't that far apart in age, yet Connor is still all about super heroes, trucks and toys, Sadie prefers books, music, and fashion. Could be a personality thing, but I'm willing to bet a majority is gender related as well.
I love it. I love being a mom, but its scary. The scariest thing I've ever done.
Prayers are changing, becoming more fervent, requesting more wisdom than ever before to answer those tough questions.
I'm so proud of my kids- they really are awesome.
They just grow up so fast. I spent this evening looking at old pictures- it seems like just yesterday I was standing belly to belly with my grandpa, awaiting the birth of my first baby. Now, 9 years later, I'm registering her for her next to last year of elementary school!
We think we're busy now, just wait. Right around the corner is middle school, science fairs, band practice and all that goes with.
I wouldn't trade it for the world.

HAPPY 9TH BIRTHDAY SADIE!!!

2009-07-24T08:00:00.001-05:00

Happy birthday baby girl! It is so hard to believe you on your last 'single digit' year!
You are growing into such a wonderful young lady. Your maturity and beauty astound me every day. It has been an honor to be your mom. I can't wait to see all you do with your life.
I love you doodle-bug!

Ten Days of Sadie-Day 10

2009-07-23T08:00:00.002-05:00

She's just an all around fun chick to be around. I have loved watching her grow up, and develop her own sense of style. She knows what she likes, and thankfully, at this point, we don't have any disagreements.

Ten Days of Sadie-Day 9

2009-07-22T08:00:00.001-05:00

She is grateful. Even for the little things, she is so excited for.

Extreme Home Makeover Howe addition

2009-07-21T18:09:00.002-05:00

If you want to join my journey of taking my home from flea market/garage sale/hand me down to ultra-fab on a teeny budget click on over to my new blog:

http://champagnetastewaterbudget.blogspot.com/

I've already posted a couple really fun makeovers and have lots more scheduled to post over the next week! Leave me a comment to let me know you stopped by.

Ten Days of Sadie- Day 8

2009-07-21T08:00:00.002-05:00

She has that theatrical personality, she loves to sing, dance, act, write stories- anything to be in the spotlight. She just eats it up.

Ten Days of Sadie- Day 7

2009-07-20T08:00:00.001-05:00

She is kind and considerate. She is always looking out for other people's feelings.

Ten Days of Sadie- Day 6

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She loves God, church or anything to do with the two. She warmed everyone's hearts very recently by asking the Lord into her heart.

Ten Days of Sadie- Day 5

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She loves her family. She always looks forward to family get togethers.

Ten Days of Sadie-Day 4

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She makes friends so easily- and they are friends for life. She loves and cares for her friends, and holds them dear to her heart.

Ten Days of Sadie- Day 3

2009-07-16T08:00:00.000-05:00

She cares for her Siblings greatly. She's always looking out for them.
Fun fact - this photo was published in the Longview News Journal on the one year anniversary of 9-11

Ten Days of Sadie- Day 2

2009-07-15T08:00:00.000-05:00

I love her laugh and her sense of humor. When something really tickles her funny bone you can't help but laugh right along with her.

Ten Days of Sadie- Day 1

2009-07-14T09:45:00.002-05:00

She's so beautiful! From the time she was a baby she has just been so pretty.

Jonas Brothers Concert

2009-06-22T16:24:00.004-05:00

The reaction when she was told what her gift from the grandparents was....

Her reaction when the Jonas Brothers hit the stage....

A huge thank you goes out to my parents, Aarons parents and both sets of my grandparents for making this possible for Sadie! For her (early) birthday gift they all chipped in and sent her and I to the Jonas Brothers Concert this past Saturday night. We had a blast! And she was OH so excited.
I've posted more pics on facebook, if you don't have a facebook let me know and I think I can email you a link to the album.

Connor's Awards

2009-06-16T11:08:00.004-05:00

Connor received:

Superintendants Honor Roll (Straight A's all year)
Student of the Month
Mavericks Club (excellent behavior)
Bright Idea Award (classroom participation)
Good Reader Award.

On his Reading Diagnostic these are his results on Phonemic Awareness, 3 of 4 is passing, he got 4 of 4. Graphophonemic knowledge 4 of 5 is passing, he got 5 of 5. Oral Reading Accuracy 90-94% is passing, he got 100%. Oral Reading Fluency, min of 60 words correct per minute is passing, Connor reads with 129 words correct per minute. Comprehension, 6 of 8 is passing, he got 8 of 8.
His teacher wrote: "Connor is so far ahead of his peers. Continue to read over the summer to stay ahead"

Words can't express how stinking proud we are of both kiddos. We're looking forward to a great school year with three of them this year!

Sadie's Awards

2009-06-16T11:02:00.005-05:00

Sadie with the school counselor
Girls with the Vice Prin.
Receiving her awards from the principal.

Each of the kids had class picnics and awards ceremonies at the end of the year.
Sadie got 3 awards, Principals Honor Roll (A's & B's all year), Excellence in Music, and Considerably Caring award.

I'm alive!!!

2009-06-16T10:53:00.003-05:00

I know, I know, long time no post. Things have just been downright crazy lately. What with the end of school, and moving, and doctor visits. Life just now seems to be slipping back into a rythim.
So we'll take one thing at a time.
We have finally moved- we found a 4 bedroom 2 bathroom townhouse for an awesome price. Its in a community so of course we're having to get used to having neighbors so close again, but we're also taking advantage of the perks of living in a place like this as well. The kids are making friends, we have two playgrounds, a basketball court, a volleyball court and a nice pool. Helps the summer go by faster. Before I know it they will be off to school again. We have a 4th, 2nd and kindergartner this year! Can you believe it??
The doctor visits:
Aaron- we can't avoid surgery on his shoulder. All other therapies have just covered up the pain for a while before it just comes roaring back. So probably in January he will take some time off work, and have the surgery done. I just pray that it works.
Connor: Connor has been battling staph here lately. The dr is afraid it might be MRSA. The latest round of antibiotics has made the rash go away, but so did the first one, it just came back faster and worse. So now we hold our breaths and see if it returns. If so, we're probably looking at a hospital admission for him. We pray it stays away this time because he's already looking at probable surgery on his right toe due to a cyst. We'll find out more about that in the next couple weeks.
Me: I have been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia. Not much to say about that. It hasn't changed my life any, I just have a name as to why I'm tired and in pain all the time.
I'll save the end of school stuff for the next post so I can include pictures. I'm also going to try and take pics of the house so you can see that too.

Grace's 5th Birthday

2009-05-13T08:02:00.003-05:00

We had fun- the kids ate popcorn and cookies for dinner. Two of Grace's favorite things. Its what she requested, so I let it slide. Then a slice of cake, Skype with Gramma and Papa Steve+kids, phone call to Nana, and bedtime it was. Oh, and a scavenger hunt to find her gift.

Saying Goodbye

2009-05-12T09:21:00.000-05:00

www.mandyhowephotography.blogspot.com

Happy 5th Birthday Grace!!

2009-05-12T08:59:00.002-05:00

WOW! 5!!!!!! I'm having such a hard time believing it, but I suppose its true huh?
5 years ago today I woke up to strong contractions and about 3 hours later, was holding you and nursing you for the first time, then back up in my bed and asleep I went. I loved the homebirth experience, and cling to the fact that I got to experience it once, rather than spend my time wishing I'd been able to do it again. It was such a magical time, and I loved every second of it.
We love you stinker-bell! Hope your 5th birthday is one to remember!

10 Days of Grace day 10

2009-05-11T08:55:00.002-05:00

She's a cuddler. As the kids have gotten older, cuddling with mom is no longer 'cool'
Grace still loves to cuddle. With me, with Aaron, with grandparents, etc. She loves to be held and to give and receive hugs.

Happy Mothers Day to Me

2009-05-10T20:44:00.002-05:00

I knew Aaron and the kids were planning something special. I had no idea what though.
Tonight him and a friend who was helping him plan went to the store, and when they came back they had me lock myself up in my room for a while. I came out and was seated at our little white table, where Sadie brought me a bowl of chips, and a bowl of salsa, and handed me a homemade menu. Of course I was only able to choose what we really had but it was all fun and games. Aaron sat with me, and Sadie was our waitress. We had fajitas, with all the fixens, and for dessert, she brought me a plate of cotton candy and under it was some resses cups. Two of my favorite things!
It was certainly a night to remember. I love my family and friends, and the thought that went into making the evening memorable for me.

10 Days of Grace day 9

2009-05-10T08:53:00.002-05:00

She's thankful. Little things are HUGE to her. And she's thankful for them all.

Happy Mothers Day!!

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To my mommy, my grand-mommy's, my aunts, and my Mother in law.
Women who have shaped my life.
Hope its a wonderful day for you all.

10 Days of Grace day 8

2009-05-09T08:52:00.002-05:00

She loves to eat. She's not a picky eater and I can't express how thankful I am for that fact!

Happy Birthday Riley!

2009-05-09T08:18:00.003-05:00

Today is the 2nd anniversary of Riley's 17th birthday.

I miss him! But from what I hear, he's growing into a great young man!

I love you Bro.

PS: Sorry I know its not the best pic, but its all I can find. You usually hide from me!

10 Days of Grace day 7

2009-05-08T08:50:00.001-05:00

She loves being a sister. Big sister, little sister- doesn't matter to her. She just loves her siblings.

10 days of Grace day 6

2009-05-07T08:48:00.003-05:00

She loves to sleep. And yes, I love that about her. That means, I still get a nap in the afternoon if I need it. Even if she doesn't fall asleep she loves to cuddle up next to me while we watch a movie. And she's almost always one of the first kids to fall asleep at night- shortly after 7pm.

10 Days of Grace days 1-5

2009-05-07T08:37:00.002-05:00

So I'm a bad mom. I totally spaced and forgot to get these posted. So in one big post here are 5 flashback pics.
So 5 reasons I love Grace:

*She's a spitfire. She stands up for herself and then some! She's never the first one to back down. This is completely opposite of me, as I will usually back down even when I'm right just to avoid confrontation. I admire that about her.

*She's the "class clown" She's always looking for a laugh, and more often than not- she gets it!

*She doesn't fit into the 'mold' She defies all labels- she's not a tomboy, but she's not a girly girl either- she is just....Grace.

*Those eyes- we receive so many comments on them when we go out- and I have to admit- I love them too. I hope they stay that color. Simply breathtaking.

*Her love. She loves people. She takes an interest in people, even strangers. I'm always asked- "whats their name?" , "Is she sad?" etc. She notices people, and takes a great interest in them.
Reminds me to slow down sometimes and be more observant of those around me.

Happy Anniversary Steven & Megan!

2009-04-26T15:11:00.003-05:00

Hard to believe its been one year already!!! Hope its been wonderful and you have many many to come! (now where is me a neice or nephew?- JUST KIDDING!)

There are no words....

2009-04-13T19:20:00.001-05:00

Mommy's Little Rock Star

2009-04-04T12:11:00.002-05:00

One of the things Aaron and I got Matthew for his birthday was this little guitar, it plays more current songs, like Allstar by Smashmouth, Crazy Little Thing Called Love, Love Shack, and a couple others that I don't remember right now. No words, just music of course- but he loves it. He's even started making up his own songs- his current hit? "I want you" Lyrics as follows: "I want you mommy, I want you daddy, I want you sissy, I want you gammy, I want you george, I want you connor, I want you gace, I want you jojo, I want you nana, I want you pawpaw, I want you teve, I want you gamma, I want you, I want you, I want yooooouuuuu"

I only hear it about 20 times a day lol

Happy 2nd Birthday Matthew!!!

2009-03-27T08:01:00.003-05:00

Hard to believe 2 years ago today I was laying in a hospital room waiting for the "real" labor to begin. It was about this time that things got moving. I was nervous because I had never been through an induction before, but we made it didn't we little guy?
Happy Birthday Lil Man- Mommy loves you!

Happy Birthday......

2009-03-26T08:02:00.002-05:00

Caroline! Hope its a great one! Miss you and love you girlie!

Ten Days of Matthew- Day 10

2009-03-26T08:01:00.002-05:00

His spunk. I don't know what it is about our boys, but they both have had rough things happen to them. Is it a boy thing? I have no clue. But he comes through it like a trooper, nothing keeps him down for long.

Ten Days of Matthew-Day 9

2009-03-25T08:01:00.002-05:00

He loves people- we'll be driving down the road and he's in the backseat waving at people in other cars. 'Hi!" It cracks me up, but you know what? It puts a smile on the faces of the people who notice him.

Ten Days of Matthew- Day 8

2009-03-24T08:01:00.002-05:00

I love that he gives people nick names. Its one of his newest things, he just randomly picks a name and thats what a person is called. We've had "Nani" and "Ana", and "Nina" and "LeeLee"
Which are NO where near these people's actual names- well except for LeeLee.

Ten Days of Matthew- Day 7

2009-03-23T08:01:00.002-05:00

His laugh. Have you ever heard this boy really truly laugh? You can't help but laugh along with him. Its infectious!

Party Pics Slideshow

2009-03-22T21:15:00.000-05:00

GONE....OK?

2009-03-22T20:45:00.002-05:00

Matthew has something new. It started when I let him have the rest of my drink one day. The other kids swarmed around him asking for a drink, and even though there was some left, he hugged it to his body looked at them and said "dink GONE.....Ok?" then proceeded to polish it off. I think its his way of saying 'this is mine, you aren't getting it, now back off!'
We let him open his gifts at Connor's party since Aaron's parents aren't going to be able to come up two weeks in a row. When he opened the movie from us, he got excited, then noticed all the other kids getting excited. He gripped that movie, and in no uncertain terms "Wadee GONE...Ok?"

Have you ever seen...

2009-03-22T20:37:00.004-05:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHQ5ZQY98X0

This episode of Friends? Where Chandler can't smile?

Maybe we should have named Matthew, Chandler. This seems to be almost all I get these days, unless he's unaware I'm taking his picture.

Party On....

2009-03-22T20:14:00.002-05:00

More of Connor's birthday party highlight pics soon to come. It was a blast, we all had a ton of fun. We missed all our old friends though. First birthday party away from home felt odd.

Ten Days of Matthew- Day 6

2009-03-22T08:01:00.002-05:00

Well he loves to eat. And I love that about him. I never have to worry about him turning up his nose at dinner. Or worry that he's not getting enough nutrition. He'll eat anything and everything!

Ten days of Matthew- Day 5

2009-03-21T08:01:00.002-05:00

That voice. Oh that voice. He learns a new word every day and his little voice is absolutely precious. I love listening to him talk.

My Poor Sadie

2009-03-20T16:29:00.002-05:00

My poor Sadie has been so ill. It started Tuesday after lunch she got a splitting headache and asked to go lay in our bed. So I sent her in there, because its the coolest, darkest room in the house. A little while later I checked on her and she was asleep. She slept all afternoon, and most of the night. She woke up around 1:30am and I could tell she was running a fever so I dosed her with meds and moved her to the couch. After Aaron left for work Wednesday morning she came in crying saying she was dizzy, she could hardly walk, so instead of sending her back to bed I let her lay in bed with me, where she just cried, because even laying down she was dizzy. Her fever at that point was a little over 103. She never moved from my bed on Wednesday. She continued to complain of her head, and neck hurting. Around lunch time her fever spiked to over 105 and I called the doctor. Explained what was going on and they recommend I take her to the ER. So Aaron headed home, I started gathering things up to take her. We got to Children's hospital in Dallas around 2, and were checked in quickly. Her fever had lowered back down to the 103 range after I medicated her at home. They did a rapid strep and rapid flu tests, both of which came back negative. The doctor explained that they have been seeing a lot of false negatives on the rapid flu tests this year. Told me to treat her symptoms and sent us home. By the time we made it home (which included dealing with rush hour traffic on 35 by downtown- I'm a true city girl now- didn't bother me in the least) Her fever had spiked back up to 105.7. It has continued like that the past couple of days. She woke up feeling ok yesterday, but by afternoon was back down again, with the high fever and pain, adding in chills to round out my suspicion that it really is the flu. Again, she woke up today feeling better, but as I type this, the fever is back, and she is laying in my bed asleep. She is so ill, and it pains me to se her so. Its frustrating to watch her suffer, and not be able to really do anything for it. She has taken to sleeping on the couch since her and Grace share a bed, and we're trying to contain this as much as possible.

So if you think of it, say a prayer for our Doodle-Bug.

Connor's Birthday Card

2009-03-20T16:20:00.005-05:00

I appologize if this are out of order, but I promised to post pics of the card I made Connor yesterday. :)

Ten Days of Matthew- Day 4

2009-03-20T08:01:00.003-05:00

His humor. I know I mentioned this with Connor too- but Matthew has the silliest sense of humor. Even at this young age, he gets so silly and starts to laugh uncontrollably at himself.

Ten Days of Matthew- Day 3

2009-03-19T10:01:00.000-05:00

Those eyes. He has his daddy's eyes- which I love so much. When I look at him I see Aaron, which is never a bad thing. :)

Happy 7th Birthday Connor!!

2009-03-19T10:00:00.001-05:00

Hard to believe that 7 years ago you were just a teeny 8lb baby boy. I love you so much, and hope you have a great 7th year!

Ten Days of Matthew- Day 2

2009-03-18T10:01:00.000-05:00

This was pretty much all I saw of him for about 10 hours after he was born- pictures like this on the back of our camera. I love what a miracle he is. I love that when I look at him I see a physical manifestation of answered prayers. I realize that things could have been so much worse, but our God answers prayers.

Ten Days of Connor- Day 10

2009-03-18T10:00:00.000-05:00

His Special Needs- I know it may be silly to love that he has AD/HD, OCD and Anxiety disorder, but these things make him who he is. And I love everything about him.

Happy St Patricks Day!

2009-03-17T21:14:00.000-05:00

See a few more Pics of Matthew from today here

Ten Days of Matthew- Day 1

2009-03-17T10:01:00.000-05:00

When I think of Matthew's birth I think about how awful I felt, how sick I was, and the scary situation we found ourselves in. Then I look at his grin, and realize it was all worth it and I would do it over again in a heartbeat. In the days following, we'll look at the reasons why I love Matthew.

Ten Days of Connor- day 9

2009-03-17T10:00:00.000-05:00

That Hair, Those Eyes. :) Enough Said.

Ten Days of Connor- Day 8

2009-03-16T10:00:00.000-05:00

His Creativity always astounds me! The he can create the most unique things out of what other people would view as trash. That he sees the usefulness of everything is another thing I love about my oldest son.

Ok Kids Pics up

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www.mandyhowephotography.blogspot.com

New Pics of Me.

2009-03-15T19:57:00.001-05:00

I think my hubby is getting pretty good with the camera myself. :) We went to downtown Dallas today to grab some birthday pics of the boys, got several good ones of Connor, but not as many of Matthew. I asked Aaron to grab some of me as well, and he did a pretty good job.

Ten Days of Connor- day 7

2009-03-15T10:00:00.000-05:00

His strength. The poor guy has been through so much in his short life, and its never gotten him down. He pulls through every time, meets every challenge head on and comes out stronger in the end.

Ten days of Connor- Day 6

2009-03-14T10:00:00.000-05:00

His brains. :) He's so smart, and learns so quickly. He retains information like crazy- he's going to go far, and I love that about him. He can do anything he puts his mind to and never ceases to amaze me with what he knows.

Ten days of Connor- day 5

2009-03-13T10:00:00.000-05:00

His humor- he loves to make people laugh- and is good at it. :)

Ten Days of Connor- day 4

2009-03-12T10:00:00.000-05:00

I love the love he has for God. He loves Sunday school, and loves to learn more about our Savior.

Ten Days of Connor- Day 3

2009-03-11T10:00:00.000-05:00

His smile- oh how I love that boy's smile. When he grins it lights up a room, and just melts my heart.

Ten days of Connor- Day 2

2009-03-10T10:00:00.000-05:00

I love Connor's heart. He is very empathetic and loves his friends and family with abandon.

Ten Days of Connor- Day 1

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Sorry for the poor quality- its a scanned pic.
I normally post blast from the past pictures on the day of the kids' birthdays. This year I thought I'd do something different. Connor's birthday is exactly 10 days from today. Each day I will post one thing I love about Connor, with a picture from the past 7 years. (Can you believe it?!?)
I'll be doing the same thing for each of the kids- so Matthew and Connor will overlap a bit. :)

Without further ado: Day 1

I love Connor's mind. He has such an inquisitive spirit. I love watching him figure things out, or the excitement in his voice when he "invents" something.

Total Relaxation...

2009-03-07T10:57:00.001-06:00

Connor doing the Sudoku and crossword puzzles in the paper.
Aaron and I with our "Himself" and "herself" coffee cups that GiGi and Papa J brought us from Ireland. Forgive the lack of makeup and puffy face. lol
How I found Cass last night. Talk about relaxed!!!

Happy Saturday everyone!

Report Card Day

2009-03-06T15:51:00.000-06:00

Connor:
Lang Comp: 91
Reading: 100
Math:97
Science/Health: 88
Social Studies: 90
PE: 99
Art: 99
Music: 100

He has been doing much better since starting his medication, and beginning GT. He is being challenged in GT which is what I was hoping for. His homework for today included researching the city of Dublin online and finding what country, continent, labeling it on a map, and then also finding what ocean it is closest to. He really enjoyed it and I have to admit I enjoyed helping him ;) I'm so proud of him and how he is doing in school.

Sadie

Lang Comp: 85
Reading: 96 (up almost 7 points since last 6 weeks)
Math: 92 (up 10 points)
Science/Health: 80
Social Studies: 87
PE: 100
Art: 99
Music:97

Sadie made Mavericks Club and Pricipals Honor roll. She has pulled most of her grades up, and a couple she pulled up significantly. They had TAKS test on Tuesday, which because of her personality she stressed over, and is still stressing over. I hate that they inflict so much stress on these kids about a standardized test. Aaron and I tried to explain to her that she makes good grades, and she will do fine on the test. And I'm sure she did do fine.
She has been participating in an after school club on Mondays where she is learning to play chess. Its something she is really enjoying. Some of the school subjects don't come as easily to her as they do for Connor, but I am so proud of how hard she is working, and how that work is reflecting in her grades.

I know I'm biased, but I think I have awesome kids. ;)

Forgot to Post

2009-03-01T17:12:00.000-06:00

Sadie recieved her first Valentine this year. She came home from school the Friday before Valentines (which is when they had their parties) with the little stuffed dog (which had a heart with Candy in it) and the rose (which lights up) They were given to her by a little boy in her class who's mom is actually a Preschool teacher at the same school as well. She was all giggly and blushy but I think its cute. :) He also asked her to the Valentines dance "as friends" but we had company come in that night, so she was unable to go.

Proof...

2009-02-23T22:56:00.000-06:00

that I can do some things without injuring myself. Like ice skating apparently- although I don't plan on making a habit of it. You can tell by the look on my face in the first pic that I was terrified. However, I didn't fall once and I prefer to keep it that way. Considering I have a bruise and knot on the inside of my arm about the size of a lemon and I have no idea how I got it. You would think with as badly as it hurts, I'd remember whatever happened to cause it- but nope No idea.

Get Away...

2009-02-19T23:37:00.000-06:00

We're having a little mini vacation. Mom and dad and the three younger kids came up and are staying at Great Wolf Lodge, so we're here with them. This is the coolest place we've ever stayed. Indoor water park (no pics of that yet- I'll get some in the morning) Bedtime stories, and a Interactive Game to play all over the hotel.
I picked the kids up from school today and headed over here- I made it fine. Traffic was light, and I remembered how to get over here fairly well. Just was a little behind schedule because I chose the wrong route- forgetting about all the school zones along the road I took up to the main highway. So that delayed me a bit, but when I got to the hotel, met up with mom, I then realized I had left my wallet at home. We got everything situated, changed the three older kids into their swimsuits and they went to the water park with mom and dad and the kids while Matthew and I headed to pick Aaron up from work. I had suggested he find a train station near the hotel and just take a different route, he decided it would just be best if I was to drive to Richardson and just pick him up at the office. I had him call me as soon as he got off work, I was near tears, shaking, and in a panic. The traffic was unreal. I told him he better not ever ask me to drive to his office again. I hated it. The worst part of the ordeal was the bridge we came to a complete stop on . If you know me, you know I don't do bridges, well I got stuck on the highest bridge crawling at 5-10 miles an hour. I was gasping for air, totally freaking out. He's on the other end of the phone telling me how good I'm doing. In my mind I'm bawling him out for having me do this. But short story long, I made it- we survived, and made it back to the hotel in one piece. We enjoyed a little water park fun (except for Matthew who kept telling me "not a bath") then we headed back to the room to shower and do the dinner thing. We brought the kids to watch the bedtime stories, and then we walked around doing the quests some. Kids were tucked into bed around ten, and were out like lights.
I'd post pics here, but there are so many- so I'm going to post them in albums on facebook and myspace. Most everyone has access to those. :)
Tomorrow we'll do the water park again, and then we're going ice skating. So many more pics will be posted.

I heart Faces- Silly Kids

2009-02-09T07:16:00.000-06:00

This week's theme is Silly. Of course I got so excited because I knew of the perfect one already. :)
Don't forget to visit the I Heart Faces blog to check out all the entries and enter one of your own.

I heart faces photo entry- The Eyes Have It

2009-02-04T08:34:00.000-06:00

I came across this contest during my daily blog reading. This weeks' theme is "The eyes have it"
So of course I immediately thought of this picture. If you would like to enter the contest- you have until 6pm to visit here.

Don't Forget!

2009-01-31T13:11:00.001-06:00

About the giveaway I'm hosting on my other blog:

www.puttothetest.blogspot.com

Even if you don't want to win, I'd love it if my blogging friends would post the link on their blogs so I can increase traffic. :)

Hosting a give away...

2009-01-29T10:22:00.001-06:00

www.puttothetest.blogspot.com

Haircut

2009-01-29T10:05:00.001-06:00

I have little mini rewards set up for myself along my weight loss journey. Getting below 220 last week (finally!) I rewarded myself with a haircut. :)
Its taking some getting used to as its shorter than I've ever worn it, and there are layers and *gasp* bangs!! So I actually have to do something to fix my hair. But I think I'm going to like it. :)

Ice Ice Baby

2009-01-28T12:22:00.000-06:00

I don't know if you can tell how shiny the street is in the background- its all ice- not water. Thankfully its starting to melt- but we are having an ice day today. Staying inside and warm.
Back to reality tomorrow. :)

Shamless Plug

2009-01-20T14:32:00.001-06:00

For my honey's blog:

http://ajhowetx.blogspot.com/2009/01/dawning-of-new-era.html

On This Day...

2009-01-20T11:09:00.000-06:00

I spent the morning in prayer, thought and relative quiet (as quiet as the house can possibly be with a 4 year old and 2 year old)
I watched the news and the coverage of today's events.
Whether you like him or not, whether you agree with his politics or not, our country has a new president.

This morning two passages stood out to me:

Hebrews 13:8,17
"Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever. Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no advantage to you."

Romans 13 1&2
"Everyone must submit himself to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. Consequently, he who rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves"

While the outcome may not have been what I hoped for, it is the outcome we are faced with.
I respect the office President Obama holds, and I respect him as my President. I will pray for him and his family, because I know he has a very long uphill battle ahead of him.

Whether you like it or not, today is a historic day.

New Bloggity Blog

2009-01-20T07:56:00.000-06:00

www.puttothetest.blogspot.com

So Excited:

2009-01-19T21:49:00.000-06:00

Have you ever found the PERFECT gift for someone without even looking? That happened to me this past weekend. We were in a certain store browsing around and I look down and saw something. I got all excited and picked it up- then noticed the strange look Aaron was giving me.
"What would we do with that??" he asked.
"Its not for us- its for Steven and Megan!!"
I know that Megan reads so I can't say what it is. lol Don't you love my cryptic blog? But if you really want to know- just shoot me an email or IM and I'll tell ya. :D
I was excited for our trip before- but now I am even more so- I love giving gifts- especially when they are as perfect as this is!

Less than two months and we'll be in Colorado! Yeah!

Brace Face.....

2009-01-19T19:45:00.000-06:00

Metal mouth..etc. I am now a member of the braces clan. :) I went in last Tuesday for a consult- I have a horrible gap between my two front teeth, and a baby tooth that never fell out and the adult tooth came in anyway, just up on the top part of my gums- you can see it on the left up there. Anyway, I was hoping for Invisalign, but nope- due to the baby tooth/adult tooth business traditional braces it is. I got them put on the next day- clear on top and metal on bottom since you can't see those when I smile anyway. So here I am in all my no make-up, double chin, unfixed hair glory. You like? ;)

If you feel so inclined...

2009-01-16T01:39:00.001-06:00

Please take the time to read this mothers blog- and help if you feel lead. I try to put myself in her shoes and I can't even stomach the idea.

Many prayers are with that family right now.

http://cotaforemersonw.com/node/279

Today Is....

2009-01-11T09:52:00.000-06:00

My parents 28th wedding anniversary.
Happy Anniversary Mom & Dad!

Weight Loss Progress

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Taken for Granted...

2009-01-09T15:15:00.000-06:00

I don't know how many of you heard- but on Tuesday a Dallas Police officer was killed in the line of duty. He was laid to rest today. Grace was with Jayme and they actually witnessed the procession.
I know for me, its so easy to take our officers for granted, as well as the military. We don't tend to think about them until we need them. It shouldn't take something like this to make us stop and remember that these men and women put their lives on the line daily for our safety.
Here's the link to the video of the procession if anyone wants to see it (you'll also be able to follow links to the full story as well) http://www.wfaa.com/video/index.html?nvid=320187&shu=1

Many faces of Matty....

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You can click it to make it larger. :)

2008 Christmas Card

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Randomness...

2008-12-21T20:42:00.000-06:00

I'm waiting for Aaron to get out of the bath, so I thought I'd type up some of the things running through my head. lol
Jayme and I went to wal mart the other night, and out of curiosity I tried on a pair of size 16 jeans, and they fit like a glove! I was so excited I started jumping up and down right there! I wasn't sure if they would fit or not- my 18's are big, but I wasn't sure HOW big- but yeah! I didn't buy them yet, but as soon as I have the extra money- I have my eyes set on the jeans, and a really cute top I also spied.
We took the kids to the galleria today. It was supposed to be a big deal- they've been advertising on the radio all these special holiday things. Well apparently the biggest thing, the famous figure skaters, were only there on Saturdays and yesterday was the last day. We still had a good time walking around, but it was a bummer that we missed that. The highlight of the day was going to the American Girl store. The girls were in heaven- I have to admit I even enjoyed it considering I grew up reading the books too. Grace will be getting her Bitty Baby on her birthday. Sadie got hers when she turned 5 so we decided to do the same for Grace. She's been asking for one for about a year now, and we've told her she had to wait until she was 5. She hasn't forgotten either. lol While we were there we decided that on Sadie's birthday she'll get one of the "Just like Me" dolls.
Tonight I ran over to Jayme's to pick up some Butter Braids that I had ordered from a friend's child's fundraiser and forgot to get at the Christmas party last night. As I was walking back to the car, I slipped on some leaves and fell flat on my back hitting the back of my head on the sidewalk in the process. No blood, but boy am I in pain. :( I think I scared poor Jayme to death. She was asking about my back, but all I could think about was my head. I got home and Aaron gave me some meds and sent me to the tub- when I soaped up I realized I have several cuts and scrapes on my arms that I didn't know about. OW!
Anyway, the kids are all fast asleep, and I think we're going to relax with some hot chocolate and a movie.
Oh, one last thing- I got all the paperwork for Connor's GT testing filled out- and he will go through the tests after Christmas break. I think as long as he stays relaxed he's going to do fine. He tends to freeze up around new people, and this is one of the things his teacher and I have discussed, so the GT counselor has actually been meeting with him and getting to know him for a few weeks so he'll be comfortable with her by the time testing rolls around.

If I don't get another post in before then- I hope you all have a very blessed Christmas!

Need some advice...

2008-12-21T01:12:00.000-06:00

I have one child that is revolting against the seat belt. Seat belts are a #1 safety issue when they are in the car, but this one child has done everything from leave it off, to sitting on the waist belt and only using the shoulder belt. I have tried doing the firm brake press (not with anyone behind me of course), firm talks, and pulling over to the side of the road until they get their seat belt on correctly. Nothing seems to be working. So I need advice- how in the world do I get them to leave their seat belt on the right way so they are safe, 100% of the time?